"For me, the marvelous thing about what I see happening here is that, what we have, as far as I’m concerned, is we have a community already. We’re just trying to figure out how to actually find a place for that community to live. And that has happened, in my mind, over the last 12 months, as we’ve been going through all these other things.

"We’ve had other crises in the past. And I think our response to this one is very telling, because we’re behaving as though the given is the community. We’ve got the community, and the variable is how do we figure out how to build the place for the community to live. And that just lightens up my heart – there’s this group of people who wants to live together so badly that we’re going through this stuff to figure out how to make it happen." ~ Russ

Saturday, March 3, 2012

Somewhere to turn

My dream for TREE is that no kid living here would ever feel that he or she had no where to turn.   I think there are critical moments of need in kids' lives that left unfilled can haunt them long after.  Some might say it is only the protracted unmet lacks that wound.  It may be so.  But think if there are not moments from your childhood when, against the odds, someone was there for you at just the right moment--and of how you have never forgotten it.  That's money in the bank for life.  My strong feeling is that when it comes to growing up, there's safety in numbers.  I remember times when as a parent I was totally at a loss for my daughter.  At such times, I have been humbly grateful for the emotional alchemy of others when mine had failed.  My simple dream is that we be there for that kid when he or she thinks there's no where to turn.

2 comments:

  1. Just one of the beautiful things that will be available for my children as they come of age at Ecovillage.

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  2. I believe strongly in being an ally to young people. Thank you for your expressive description, Mac. You speak to my heart.

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